Str8 people making inappropriate comments to gay people.

Yes... It still happens.
Whether it be your friends, family, colleagues, coworkers, it's WRONG!

Do I make snarky comments to make str8 people feel like they shouldn't fit in? No. It's been often, that I've come across these kind of situations lately as I've been socializing with more str8 people visiting my hometown. Like people hesitant to share utensils with a gay person because in their fucked up world every gay person is dirty, complaining that you take too long to get ready ( as if it's any of their business how long it takes for you to get comfortable with yourself to walk out the door), people looking at you weird because you have a gait you've been working on since you were 13(JK) mainly people do these things to shrink you.



It's almost as if they want us to shrink us to fit into their perfect picture of what a man should be. Men and women of all "types" should be able to get along and coexist without wanting to shrink one another. Why would you want someone to feel trapped in a body that's unwanted. This is what we need to protect our youth from, FEELING TRAPPED and committing suicide.

Everyone should put their foot down, be who you want to be no matter how others TRY to make you feel. I say try because they're only succeeding if you allow yourself to shrink to their tom foolery version of who you should be. You're in charge ultimately in how you feel and if those people around you don't like you. Continue to take a low blow at you or your sexuality and the characteristics it comes with. Get rid of those people. Don't give them the blessing of having you in their life. Make yourself disappear from them. If it's meant for you to be in each others life, the universe will show that person they're wrong for making you feel that way and they'll come and apologize. If not the universe will take care of that person. Like a boomerang the energy you put out into the universe will come back to you and hit you in the face. Be peaceful. Be happy. Live you life as you feel. You should never have to decide how gay you're being or how gay you look. Look as gay as you want, be as gay as you feel.
-Aftin

Str8 people making rude comments about gay people.

I'm the black wolf

I’m a black wolf
I stand in darkness
Not everyone can see me.

A heart not of stone
a howl not a bite
Afraid of a fight
I’m the black wolf.

I live with no alpha
I thrive from my sight
A flash in the darkness
I can see the light.

The black wolf dreams of fitting into the pack
But there is not pack that’ll bark for the black wolf
The black wolf stands alone every day and every night.
He is all he has at the end of his strong fight.

- Aftin

5 Most Horrifying Torture Devices Ever Made In History Video ( HAPPY HALLOWEEN MONTH)

Oh My God, This is GRUESOME. The entire video. I would choose rat torture in hopes that they eat my hear out and kill me instantly. Ultimately I'd avoid ALL OF THEM. God how could you be the one to inflict such pain on someone. Two wrongs don't make a right. #Saynototorture

HAPPY GRUESOME-TOBER

My thoughts on Miley Cyrus' new album. " Miley& her dead pets"

I began with " Dooo it " the first song on her album ( at least from soundcloud ) which is free to download to anyone! Right away I got the feel as if this album was created by a girl in her young 20's, which it was! I love how personal and boutique like, Miley made this album. Almost as if she recorded it in a home studio with a bunch of notes from her journal.

For 20 something ( our age ) , I would interpret dead pets literally and in the sense of transitioning to an adult not knowing what you want to do, or who you want to hang with. Surpassing the obstacles of love and friendships. Going through life changing emotions you realize as you grow up who your friends are & who you friends have been ( YOUR DEAD PETS ).

My question for Miley would be with such big platform, what is the message she's giving to the world. I was going to write about it here but it's not my album to say what message is given to the world. In the meantime I'll just interpret it in my own way.

Get past the first song....

You, the universe, and karma

You are here, You're are in the best place you can put yourself in right now. Given all you've been through. As long as you're not doing anything to directly bother someone mine or someone else's flow. You're doing good. Life isn't about being perfect and making all the right decision. We as humans tend to build people up to only tear them down. I should say THEY, because I'm one who think positively of others goals even if they're unrealistic. As long as you work and manifest those goals. How could you ever kill someones dreams, goals and confidence. Throw good vibes into the air, they'll come back at you like a boomerang. The universe works in wonderful ways... and remember KARMA IS A BITCH.

(Above) Two Friends reflecting life and changes... on a discoball baloon.

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